Almost every person I reached out to was happy to talk to me and provide their insight on their community, and I've actually gotten some very enlightening feedback from them! My favorite quotes I've gotten in response are:
“In the same way a woman may feel her womanhood is tied to the color pink, flowy dresses or stereotypically feminine things — my gender is just tied to concepts that aren't usually associated with gender!” -rwuffles on Tumblr
“Identity can be serious, but it helps to let go and be able to make silly flags, use silly pronouns, just to remember that it’s not all about how you're presenting yourself to others, but what you’re doing for yourself to make you happy.” -rabidbatboy on Tumblr
“I have synesthesia, and that has affected my gender because it lets me visualize my identity. I think that's the main reason why I use xenogenders. Because I know what my gender looks like, and I need non-gendered concepts to explain it.” -ballsalsda on Tumblr
“I feel as if it's important to describe my gender as in how it doesn't work with the system we've put in place, but I feel it's also very important to stop comparing your gender to the binary for a second to explain how your gender feels.” -ballsalsda on Tumblr
With my research on MOGAI well on its way, I've started conducting a similar community questioning with therians. With any luck, they'll be half as kind as everyone in the MOGAI community I spoke with.
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